Introduction

MAN AS A MORAL BEING

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This book is dedicated to examining person like mereal being.

To reveal such a complex and ambiguous phenomenon as Homo moralis, it is necessary to dwell at least briefly on the generic characteristics of a person, which allow him not only to be known as, but also to actually be a subject of moral behavior. In addition, it is necessary to find out what morality is, give it a definition, and only then can we proceed to the most important and interesting thing - the analysis of those ethical concepts that are designed to express all the richness and inconsistency of everyday moral life.

Of course, moral issues are not limited to the topics that form the basis of my lecture course. It is inexhaustible, just as human experience is inexhaustible. However, I tried to choose for you those moral stories that are relevant at any time and run through the entire human history. Themes of good and evil, freedom and responsibility, duty and conscience, the meaning of life are as important and relevant today as they were a thousand years ago. I hope, my readers, that they will not leave you indifferent.

So, let us turn to the specifics of a person, which determines his ability to be moral. On the first

Look, man is one of the varieties of numerous animal species living on Earth. According to the ancient Greek thinker Aristotle, “matter has an appetite for form,” and in nature we see many animals and birds, fish and insects that are not similar to each other, endowed with different appearances, colors and dispositions. All of them are concrete sensory, empirical, carnal creatures, connected into an integral unity by environmental laws. Man also consists of flesh and bones, also wants to eat, strives to reproduce and submits in his development to the dictates of the genetic code. In some ways he is very similar to his “smaller brothers” - he suffers the same way and dies the same way. And yet, man is something fundamentally different, for biological laws are only the foundation on which the edifice of human existence is built, only a prerequisite for the development of the world of culture, which gives man the opportunity to have self-awareness, freedom and morality.

The presence of these special characteristics of a person has always sharply distinguished him from his animal environment, making him qualitatively different, a strange alien, as if a guest from another dimension.

Culture is a way of survival and development, in which a person passively adapts to kind, but, on the contrary, he adapts nature to himself. Biologically, a person is weaker than other living beings - he does not have powerful claws and fangs, he has a long childhood, when a child needs the help of others, and finally, a person is a “naked monkey”, not covered with fur from winds and frosts. But culture - objective-practical activity, work - allowed man to become the most powerful creature on the planet, because he created tools and tools - the continuation and strengthening of his potential. With their help, he sowed fields, built houses and created machines - laid the foundation for the whole world of modern civilization. At the same time, man no longer acted according to only a narrow genetically specified biological program.

gram. He broke out of the limits of purely natural laws into the “suprabiological” and was able to create not only according to the “standards of his species,” but according to the standards of any species, universally, including “according to the laws of beauty” (K. Marx). Culture is the emergence of fundamentally new relationships between “individuals”, who are now no longer just “members of the pack”, but people. Members of a monkey troop communicate exclusively about their natural needs, their natural interest does not extend further, and the subject of human communication becomes joint activity, which is only indirectly linked to the satisfaction of physical needs. Human communication itself emerges, subject to tradition and moral laws. A person is born as moral being. Not blind biological impulses, but morality now becomes the force that organizes actions, passions and thoughts.

Morality or morality (which in our conversation will be the same thing) is a set of norms, values, ideals, attitudes that regulate human behavior and are the most important components of culture. The peculiarity of morality is that for its successful action it must be deeply internalized by man com, must “enter his soul”, become part of his inner world. A person is moral only when moral behavior becomes organic to him, and he does not need an overseer who checks and urges. Since any human actions and relationships (except purely technical ones) have a moral aspect, in any area of ​​life we ​​are faced with morality as the “inner voice” of a person, which helps him behave morally in a variety of situations.

Moral regulation is evaluative-imperative character, this means that morality always evaluates and commands. She tells you to act according to good and prohibits following evil, encourages good, fair behavior and bright, benevolent thoughts, and condemns atrocities and evil, dark passions.

At the center of morality is the relationship between what should be and what is th. Morality always shows us the essentially necessary order of things, the ideal state of affairs, what we must strive for. Animals do not know ideals, they follow a given stereotype, but man is an open, unclosed being, and he is always striving for culturally recognized models and ideals, constantly relating himself to them, often realizing his actual imperfection. “I’m not what I need to be, but I will become like that!” - only a representative of the genus Homo sapiens can say this.

Morality turns out to be possible because a person living in a culture and communicating with his own kind has self-awareness. He separates himself from the world, has a sense of “I,” and experiences himself as a whole, distinct from everything else. Only such a sovereign subject is capable of relating to his actions, feelings and thoughts in a certain way, evaluating them, and taking responsibility for what he has done. Self-awareness gives people an understanding of their mortality, finitude, and this also contributes to moral reflection, because conscious death is that boundary in the future, before crossing which one must have time to take the path of good. Death has a binding meaning - it obliges us to constant moral effort for the sake of other people, for the sake of improving our own soul and for the sake of the triumph of higher principles in the world.

A person's morality is closely related to his ability to free choice. It is expressed primarily in people’s ability to distance themselves from selfish material and physiological needs in order to subordinate their actions to moral rules and principles. People are given the ability not only to “experience” an experience, but also to have a moral attitude towards their experience, for example, to suppress their fear and encourage courage. Free choice is a choice freed from the inevitable influence of external and internal circumstances; it is an act of personal decision, an expression of the individuality of the subject. Cro-

Moreover, freedom of choice is an important aspect of moral behavior itself. Of course, a truly moral person has established moral habits and moral intuition can work - something that acts as if automatically. But non-rational forms of morality are not always suitable. In difficult situations, when equivalent values ​​collide (duty and love, friendship and truthfulness, etc.), we are forced to think, reflect, weigh the pros and cons. It is here that our ability to freely choose and express our moral will is realized.

Man as a moral being lives, of course, in the real world, full of contradictions and imperfections. He submits to the type of morality and the relationships that are accepted among his people, in his community or state. And morals in the history of mankind are often extremely cruel: not only the Huns and barbarians, but also modern “enlightened peoples” are often aggressive and guided by severe intolerance towards everything that is not in their own honor. However, within almost any specific historical moral system there are seeds, sparks of “high morality.”

“High morality” is a set of universal human such attitudes towards a selfless, fair and benevolent attitude towards any human being. Even if it is despised or hated from the point of view of the “here” and “today’s” set of morals. “High morality” is the heart of all true morality; it is the best that humanity has developed in its moral history. Therefore in real life we are always faced with the interaction of at least three components that determine human behavior: this is, firstly, the action of simple biological and material needs that push the individual along a grossly egoistic path, secondly, this is a set of specific historical traditions and moral institutions, one way or another otherwise orienting individuals towards the priority of group interests, and thirdly, these are commands of high

morality, speaking on behalf of humanity as a whole and often on behalf of God. The complex dynamics of these three components determines the appearance of moral behavior and the inner world of specific people. The practical morality of each of us depends on what exactly prevails.

Speaking about a person as a moral being, we must not forget that moral guidelines do not hang in the air, they are closely intertwined with human psychology and are realized in behavior through psychological mechanisms. People do not just fulfill moral laws or not fulfill them, they hope and believe, strive and doubt, rejoice and get angry, find or do not find the strength to move towards a moral ideal. That is why here I am talking not just about the “categories of ethics” that have crystallized in theory, but about how the most important moral themes are involved in people’s lives.

Moral being Man goes through his life path, lives his destiny, constantly coming into contact with good and evil, freedom and responsibility, honesty and justice, he takes care of his dignity, seeks love, and raises children. Let us turn to this wealth of our life, full of passions and

Lecture 1THE WAYS OF GOOD AND EVIL

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E.V. Zolotukhina-Abolina “Everyday life and other worlds of experience” M., 2003. About the sense of meaning We will talk about the meaning of life. Once upon a time, in my young post-student years, the question of the meaning of life seemed to me extremely sophisticated, elitist-philosophical and completely incomprehensible. "The meaning of life"? Something so vague and pompous, some strange addition to ordinary human existence, which takes place in worries and troubles; in efforts to achieve one or another quite clear goal. Life is rich and exciting, there are so many interesting things in it that you need to understand and experience: you need to become a good teacher, find your love, see the world... Thinking about the additional and general “meaning” that seems to hover over life was something for me like a medieval dispute about how many angels can survive on the point of a needle... But, since the expression “the meaning of life” sounded beautiful, then at my first lectures, I, looking sternly at the audience, said: “Every person, if he is a thinking being, at some point he thinks about the meaning of life...” The audience in the hall pulled their heads into their shoulders, because everyone instantly wondered in their minds whether they had thought about the meaning of their life... And it turned out that they had not. But you don’t want to look like an unthinking creature. That is why someone, completely in the spirit of the times, said from the place that the meaning of life is in work... Over time, going through the stages of my own life path one after another, reading books devoted to meaning, I began to understand that the topic of the meaning of life does not apply to the category of elite entertainment, to the realm of the exquisite “bead game”. The meaning of life is the most vital thing in the world, although it is very, very difficult to express it in words, because its content does not fully fit into rational forms, partly merging with life itself, its small and large concerns. It coincides with the desire to live, with the mood and general emotional tone. The meaning of life is not a register of even the highest and most worthy tasks (although it may include these high tasks), it is a state of consciousness that allows a person to cope with difficulties, overcome obstacles and fully enjoy his own existence. This meaning of the term “meaning of life” can best be learned from personal experience, because theoretical knowledge does not allow us to comprehend it in its entirety. In addition, I realized that even a thinking person does not necessarily think about the meaning of his existence. Philosophical rigorism, which requires tireless reflection from everyone, is inappropriate here. As a rule, a person comes to the question of meaning not from a good life: the vast majority of thoughts about the meaning of life are provoked by at least a short-term loss of meaning. People in whose fate meaning has never been lost, who have never let go of its life-giving thread, do anything except think about meaning: build houses, give birth and raise children, fight, write poetry. Meaning, with all its positive experiences, may have been given to them by culture or passed on by family, or they themselves found it along the ornate paths of individual development, but in any case it is there, available. And then there is no need to look for it or deliberately analyze your own emotional and semantic sphere, just as there is no need to closely examine a healthy, well-functioning organism. The search for meaning arises as necessary, and this happens even among philosophers, who, it would seem, should think about such questions due to their professional activities. A person searches for meaning when the world encourages him to do so, and this happens quite often, and especially when a series of sociocultural crises causes a series of existential crises. But what do we mean when we talk about the meaning of life? We are talking about a system of significant guidelines that turn into motives for our activities and behavior, as well as the preservation and reproduction of our life itself. The meaning of life can be subjective or intersubjective, but never objective in the sense of objectivity as independence from the inner world. As many authors writing about meaning note, the phenomenon of meaning is close to the phenomenon of purpose, but does not coincide with it. The goal is the image of the desired future, and the meaning is the significance of something for us: in in this case the significance of life itself, one’s own “I”, communication, the surrounding world. In a certain respect, the goal is derived from the meaning: I want from the future not just anything, but something that means a lot to me, that has an important meaning. However, the meaning, in turn, can be actualized and awakened by the set goal. The meaning of life, as I understand it, always places us in a system of relationships with the surrounding reality, it is always associated with “transcending” (W. Frankl) and answers the questions “why?”, “for what?” The purpose of this article is to show the meaning of life as a special feeling,Howstateinner world, whichcan'tbereduced towith hismeaningful, rationally expressiblecomposite,to oneonly a consciousnew search for a system of goals. We can say that we will talk about the non-rational nature of meaningful experiences in life. The intentional nature of meaning manifests itself primarily in unique experiences and only then is reflected, receiving a clear image and conceptual expression. So, the meaning of life is not only a set of significant contents, but first of all the nature of our actual attitude towards these contents, when significance expresses itself in the positive emotions present here and now. Without an emotional contribution from the subject himself, without his lively response, all significant value programs will remain only schematic. Values ​​and value programs are only more or less successful declarations until they become “personal meaning”, revived and animated by individual subjectivity. Indeed, for some people altruism can give meaning to life, while others will treat it critically or indifferently. In order to animate your life with dedication, you must first find a cause that can ignite your imagination and evoke a positive response. If it were easy to find such a thing, the problem of the meaning of life would simply not exist. The same applies to self-actualization. Its paths are either not found at all, or are found spontaneously, and a rationally thought-out program rarely participates in this. The value program itself is weak without our fascination with it, without passion and imagination, without the ardent interest that is born from the mysterious depths of the personality. The meaning of life flares up at the intersection of value-motivational programs and personal experience, and it burns with an even and unquenchable flame until neither the first nor the second component changes. The fact that the meaning of life is not only “the thought of life” is said by many researchers of meaning. In his interesting fundamental work “The Psychology of Meaning,” which contains a detailed overview of points of view on meaning,” D.A. Leontiev writes: “Among the ideas of different authors about the internal structure and dynamics of meanings, it is difficult to single out general provisions, with the exception of the idea of ​​situational variability of meaning and its dependence on the current state of the subject (K. Levin, L. Nystedt, E. Peterfreundt) and emphasizing that meaning is not always conceptually represented, is not always conscious and cannot always be clearly expressed by available means (S. Freud, A. Adler, V. Frankl). In this case, it is the non-rational existence of meaning that is emphasized, its ambiguous connection with logical and verbal forms in general. What do we feel when we experience the presence of meaning in life? Let us try to answer this question by describing the totality of meaning-creating experiences, presenting a short phenomenology of the emotional forms in which value guidelines are embodied. 1. The presence of meaning in life is expressed in the experience interest to the world, to people and to yourself. Each of us knows the feeling of interest well from our own experience, although it is quite difficult to describe it. Meaningful and interesting - practically the same thing. When a person says: the meaning of my life is to raise children (to poison the life of an enemy, destroy Carthage, discover new laws of the Universe, save more stray cats, etc.), this means that he is closely and persistently interested in children, an enemy, Carthage, science, cats, and tries to influence their existence in one way or another. To have meaning in life means to strive to embody one’s intentions in some specific actions, experiences, and mental actions. The meaning of life can be associated with interest in a variety of things; ideally, it includes a whole set of aspirations, a kind of integral integrity in which the personal values ​​that awaken our attention are interconnected. However, sometimes, due to circumstances, interest is concentrated on one particular area of ​​life and it becomes meaning-forming. Thus, a person who, due to his state of health, is deprived of interest in the sensory-physical side of being, can find full meaning in theoretical knowledge, which remains accessible to him, or in the affirmation of a certain ideology (examples of this scientist Stephen Hawking and writer Nikolai Ostrovsky). The nature of meaning-forming interest remains unclear. Why does something become interesting to us? Exactly for us and exactly this? What is the mechanism for the emergence of meaning-creating interest? How to understand what is interesting if we're talking about not about theory, but about everyday reality? Apparently, meaningful interest arises when something that is significant to us is present in our life, but its presence is not enough and cannot cause satiety. This insufficiency of the goods we value, their constant lack, awakens interest and meaning, directs a ray of attention to the “precious-eternally-missing”. The lack of true knowledge, active self-affirmation, love, and also anything else lights a semantic fire in the soul, makes this or that phenomenon infinitely interesting, and with it, the rest of life becomes more or less interesting. 2. The second emotional-sensory moment inherent in the presence of meaning in life is feeling of the future. The realization of meaning-interest is practically impossible outside of time; it requires the experience of temporal openness. A sense of perspective in a vivid form is inherent in childhood. Although a person does not know how long he will live, in childhood he clearly experiences a virtually existing “long and wonderful life.” Therefore, in childhood, if we exclude the consideration of mental pathologies, people, as a rule, do not lose their sense of meaning. They may suffer, grieve, experience hardships, but the spectrum of as yet unrealized alluring possibilities remains, and it gives a sense of hope and meaning that beckons to itself from the future. However, the experience of temporal perspective as the most important component of the meaning of life is possible at any age. And at ninety years old a person can make plans and perceive life as a long and exciting journey. 3. The third point that characterizes the sense of meaning in life is a spontaneous feeling of joy and emotional uplift. Actually, joy as such is generally a phenomenon associated with meaning, with the awareness of involvement in something meaningful, with productive activity (E. Fromm). The meaning of life and joy are inseparable. If, while grasping the meaning of a specific unfavorable situation for us, we may be upset, upset or angry, then, feeling that our life has meaning, we invariably feel joy and uplift. This happens even when the content is quite terrible (to take revenge on an enemy, to drive away someone you envy from the world) or unattractive, unenviable (to take care of yourself on your own, to survive at any cost). We should not forget that meaning and the joy of meaning are by no means always morally positive. People who are cruel, evil, and unjust also have a meaning in life, and this meaning often becomes the assertion of their own power, the implementation of violence against others, the realization of their own sadistic desires. Therefore, joy, associated with meaning, in this case does not at all resemble peaceful goodwill. This is evil joy, this is a menacing affirmation of one’s own plans and aspirations. By and large, such a meaning and such joy are “inauthentic”, because they are far from harmonious, humane relations with the world. However, there is a lot in the world that is inauthentic, and at the same time quite real, so we cannot discount the fact that many people are guided by destructive meanings and rejoice, experiencing the meaningfulness of their lives. 4. The fourth component and form of manifestation of meaningful experience is the feeling of being part of the whole, an important and significant component of a complex system of relationships - family, love, state, ethnic, cultural, cosmic, etc. As we have already noted, meaning is associated with transcendence - going beyond your own local “I”. The feeling of being beyond the boundaries of the “ego”, connected by myriads of threads with other subjects and with the world as a gigantic animated formation, coincides with a feeling of deep meaningfulness of one’s own life. Even the most inveterate egocentrics and individualists have a certain “reference group” within which they see their place, the values ​​of which they share. This group can only exist in a person’s memory, in his imagination, in cultural texts, but he must certainly be present so that we do not fall into a state of meaninglessness and irresistible absurdity. Even the semi-fantasy ideal of the hermetic magician, who has achieved complete independence from everything finite and earthly, includes the idea of ​​a place in the group: we are magicians, unlike others - mere mortals. Absolute loneliness would be an absolute death of meaning, since absolute inner loneliness can have neither values ​​nor guidelines. Subjectively, being embedded in a system of relationships can be perceived as a feeling of “coziness of the world,” its suitability for us and its human dimensions. The human dimension of the world means the direct experience of “one’s place in the sun” as decent and significant, respected and approved. Own certainty in an understandable coordinate system evokes deep positive emotions. The existence of the meaning of life precisely in the form of feeling, direct experience is very important, since the very nature of the highest values ​​does not give them the opportunity to constantly appear in the rational,
conceptual, clearly reflected form. Where we verbally express our highest meanings, try to verbally designate fundamental life goals, we are faced with the extreme blurring of what shines to us from the “world of value ideas.” Each highest value turns out to be like the sun, which shines with myriads of rays, pours out an infinite number of concrete images, self-moving and changeable, and gives birth to multidimensional worlds. What do you mean when you say “I want to be happy”? Or “I want to live an interesting life”? IN
Each such phrase includes many already realized and not yet realized possibilities, such that at the moment, perhaps, it is even impossible to imagine. When I say “I want to be happy,” I mean, willingly or unwillingly, situations about which I have no idea yet, which have not yet matured and appeared in their
completed form. What events are coming? What circumstances or actions will make you feel happy? What values ​​might come to the fore for me? We change every day, and remarkable reflection is needed to track the rational measure of the realization of each semantic intention. But a sense of meaning as an indicator shows us whether we are on the right path to the embodiment of our values, to their creative realization in the course of life. What factors are capable of maintaining our sense of meaning? In this case, we will talk about the need for support in situations when a person does not experience crushing blows of fate, does not experience those severe semantic crises. We will rather talk about “small losses of meaning” that happen to almost everyone, regardless of their external success in life. In common parlance, “small losses of meaning” are called bad mood, blues, and sometimes boredom or groundless melancholy. Often such a bad mood goes away on its own, but sometimes it drags on, painting the world in the gray colors of meaninglessness, turning everyday life into a routine, into a series of monotonous days that pass, leaving a feeling of emptiness in the soul. If we described the sense of meaning through the characteristics of interest, a sense of the future, spontaneous joy and finding one’s own cell in the social and cosmic “honeycomb”, then the appearance of “small loss of meaning” is characterized by all these factors with a minus sign. Longing and boredom are associated with a lack of interest in anything, when a person acts only out of duty and habit, without experiencing
no positive emotions from life, burdened by the need for worthless efforts. This is a bleak time when the future is seen as a bummer, as an endless repetition of an uninteresting “today.” Finally, melancholy is often associated with a feeling of loneliness, with a psychological loss from the system of relationships with Others and the loss of a sense of involvement in the world as a whole. In this article, I will limit myself to only pointing out the factors themselves that contribute to the restoration of a sense of meaning, which most often arise spontaneously or are found by the person himself in the course of his personal search. Intentional searches often have an effect: already in ancient times, a severely bored person was offered a change of scenery, to have fun, to travel, to make acquaintances - that is, to broaden his horizons and gain new perspectives. So, the very arrival of new people, new circumstances and new events into our destiny does a very important thing: it awakens interest in life, as if pulling out meaning by a thread. Against the background of monotony and repetition, new meetings, new landscapes, new relationships flash like torches, which attract attention, involving a person in communication with the world. There is not only the discovery of new circumstances and characters, but also self-discovery. Sometimes the role of a cure for loss of meaning is played by various deprivation factors: the loss of familiar benefits. It has been noted many times that in difficult situations - during wars and natural disasters - the number of depressions is reduced, since the meaning in this case automatically becomes survival itself. This, apparently, explains the passion of some people for extreme sports, for mountaineering, for constant self-examination, which returns a sense of meaning that is lost in a calm environment. However, I would like to point out softer moments that fit into everyday life, helping us overcome “small meaningless losses.” The first of them is love. “Easy to say! - the reader can answer me. “Where can I get it?” Don't know. I warned you that I am far from making practical recommendations, especially in matters that are decided not by us, but by some mysterious authorities - God, fate. But I want to emphasize: we are talking about the love that you feel, and not the love that someone feels for you. That is, it’s good, of course, when love turns out to be mutual, this is the most beautiful and prosperous option, but it is not someone else’s love that awakens meaning in us, but only our own. This is such a thing, meaning. As is known, it is not introduced from the outside. Therefore, someone else’s love, addressed to you and not finding a response in your soul, may not delight, but on the contrary, burden, make life even more meaningless, because there is nothing worse than fighting off someone else’s unnecessary passion. Of course, sometimes someone else’s love can awaken us from our emotional and semantic slumber. It acts initially through the restructuring of our sense of our own place in the world. “Nobody needs me” and “I am loved” are two different positions in existence. If I can create meaning in life for another person, or rather, be this meaning, then my place in the sphere of communication is respected and worthy. From this feeling interest, spontaneous joy, and the fullness of meaning can be born. But then, most likely, we will respond to the lover’s feeling, and the semantic relationship will become mutual. The birth of our own love (falling in love) with another person awakens in us a keen interest in reality, gradually forms goals, attracts pleasant prospects, causes spontaneous joy and gives each of us the opportunity to feel like a full-fledged person in a community of our own kind. The appearance of a Beloved in our life rebuilds the entire structure of relations with the world, for he becomes for us an emotional and semantic center, the most important point of interest. The intention of love is at the same time the intention of interest, because here we encounter someone else’s subjectivity, which is very valuable to us. The soul of a loved one is a mystery; for the lover there is an infinite depth in it, which cannot be reduced either to a set of external behavioral manifestations, or to reactions during sexual intimacy, or even to the words that the beloved utters to us in response. That is why love communication is deeply meaningful, it is a time-long attempt to solve a riddle that cannot be solved by definition. In connection with your loved one, the rest of your life takes on meaning. We find ourselves captured by the desire to work, create, achieve benefits in order to please our loved one, create conditions for his development, in order to win him over. mutual love and maintain this reciprocity. For your loved one, you need to maintain your own external and internal attractiveness. The simplest and most routine moments of everyday life and self-care also become meaningful. There is something to try for! Love cannot live without hope, and hope is a look into the future. Even someone who is unrequitedly in love always secretly hopes for a miracle: that somewhere, somewhere, they will return their love. And happy love certainly makes plans, looks at the future through the magic crystal of joy. Of course, real love is a complex relationship, it includes ups and downs, meetings and partings, but the struggle of wills, resentment, and reconciliation, no matter how difficult they are, still fill life with meaning, and the presence of this meaning does not need to be proven - everyone who has ever loved knows this for themselves. The second factor in regaining and maintaining meaning is being curious. Moreover, curiosity in its various forms. If a person, immersed in a temporary loss of meaning, wakes up and turns to something with curiosity, cognitive interest, things go well, the meaning returns. Curiosity can be inquisitiveness. Looking sadly at the TV, you can suddenly become interested in the hierarchy in a troop of macaques, UFO problems or ethnic conflicts in African countries. You may accidentally come across an interesting book at a friend’s house or hear something that caught your attention on a radio program. In any case, some knowledge becomes an attractor that attracts attention, makes you run to the library, explore the possibilities of the Internet, look for acquaintances that allow you to dive deeper into the comprehension of the subject that has become the semantic core. Unfortunately, curiosity is a type of curiosity that does not very often visit people who have left school and student age, although its meaning-creating power is enormous. Much more often, knowledge of a completely different kind brings us out of the temporary loss of meaning, that which is born in communication - this is knowledge about other people and the events that happen to them: news, gossip, rumors... If we turn to the work of M. Heidegger “Being and time,” then we will see that with all his desire to talk about curiosity exclusively as a way of being of understanding and interpretation, he still cannot restrain himself from its derogatory assessment. For him, curiosity and chatter are associated with the inauthenticity of human existence. “Curiosity is everywhere and nowhere,” he writes. - This mode of being in the world reveals a new way of being of everyday here-being, in which way of being here-being constantly deprives itself of its roots. Chat also leads to curiosity; it tells you what to read, what to see. This being everywhere and nowhere, inherent in curiosity, is entrusted to chatter.” Heidegger's position is dictated by the fact that the main relationship for him is the relationship of man to being, an inexpressible experience that takes us beyond the framework of the objective world, expressed in the language of discrete forms. The human turns out to be “too human” for him, too small, vain and flat. However, people themselves, immersed in everyday life and sharing all its leading characteristics, draw their meanings precisely from that “superficial” communication that Heidegger considers inauthentic. What can you do, even mystics cannot live by revelations alone, especially since revelation is not a permanent state. And there’s nothing to say about the normal average person. Curiosity and chatter are the most important moments of ordinary, non-esoteric life, and moreover, these are the moments that bring a sense of meaning to our existence. Perhaps Heidegger would not have liked these meanings, but this is his personal question: what, why and how animates the life of a particular person, in many cases remains a mystery to other people. As they say, to whom is the priest, to whom is the priest, and to whom is the priest’s daughter. The most banal chatter, neighborly gossip fulfills an important mission in relation to our personality: in chatter “about this and that,” firstly, we are presented with the most vivid and poignant events in the lives of other people, capable of reviving our interest - and what could be more interesting than other people, especially if they are significant to you? When a person becomes completely uninterested in other people and their affairs, this means; that psychological pathology has gone far and it is worth seeking professional help. Secondly, chatter always presupposes the possibility of extending into the future: we chatted today, we’ll chat tomorrow, there will certainly be something to talk about! News and gossip cannot be interesting in the face of the end of the world. They are “meaning carriers” only if they have the temporal perspective of returning to today and reinterpreting everything anew. Chatting is always an experience of interpretation, reinterpretation, and therefore the attribution of variable meanings. Finally, if they start chatting with you, then this is evidence of your importance, your high status in communication. People usually don’t want to chat with an unpleasant, disgusting person, they avoid him, they shy away from him. Therefore, the very fact of chatting is a kind of psychological stroking. A sense of meaning is born spontaneously in chatter: people are significant to you, you are significant to people, and from here follows an emotional and semantic upsurge. Another important way to awaken a temporarily dormant sense of meaning is to turn to art. In particular, to fiction, theater, cinema, that is, those forms that involve storyline. “Small losses of meaning” are associated with events in our personal destiny; it is a mental anabiosis that arose from our own disappointments, fatigue, and the monotony of days. Introducing oneself to someone else's fate, to the course of someone else's life, created by the imagination of talented authors, turns out to be able to temporarily fill emotional and semantic voids, just as some medications simply replenish hormones and enzymes missing in the body. In the full sense of the word, we begin to “live someone else’s life,” experience other people’s feelings, be filled with other people’s meanings, which at this time are perceived as our own. Art is always an opportunity to live someone else’s destiny, perhaps completely different from our own. The more talented the author of a work, the more he gives us “pills of meaning” that eliminate the emotional and semantic deficit and help the inner world recover for its own meaning of creative work. Different literary and artistic works achieve this effect in different ways. The genre of the detective story, science fiction novel, and fantasy, beloved by many, awakens our sense of meaning with the intensity of intrigue, the unusualness of what is happening, and attracts interest with the alternation of trials and victories that the main characters win - the very ones with whom we, willingly or unwillingly, identify ourselves. In action-packed works, the substantive moment dominates, the factor of surprise, it teases the mind, evoking the corresponding feelings: interest, curiosity, desire to understand the logic of the adventure. A different effect is created by works like the novels “In Search of Lost Time” by Marcel Proust or “My Diamond Crown” by Valentin Kataev. Here the sense of meaning is born precisely as a feeling, due to the detailed reproduction of vivid emotional impressions, visual images, “tasty” details that you experience directly - almost as a fact of your own life. However, a sense of meaning can be awakened not only by such positive experiences as love, neutral ones such as curiosity and chatter, and artistic and fantasy ones such as participation in works of art. Hatred carries a huge meaning-forming charge. It's probably not best way revive the meaning, but in reality it acts very often. In hatred, the world is torn apart, torn, mutilated, hostile. However, this hostility directly calls for aggression, active goal setting and harsh self-expression. If a person who is in a state of temporary loss of meaning is greatly offended, his possessions are taken away from him, and he is humiliated, then one of the most striking reactions will be the restoration of meaning through a fight with the offender. In real life, we see that the modern generation of young people, whose childhood was spent in destroyed Chechnya, warring Karabakh or Abkhazia, truly lives with hatred for their foreign ethnic offenders and cherishes the dream of eliminating their enemies, regardless of any principles of humanity . National enmity, ideological hatred, religious strife - all types of ideologies that create the “image of the enemy” give thousands and thousands of people a primitive, cruel, but very real sense of meaning. Here there is both a bright interest and a clear goal, here a project for a long victorious struggle is being built, the triumph of the coming revenge is bubbling, cohesion and unity with “our own” is felt. Unfortunately, the paths to creating meaning through simple and raw feelings often turn out to be shorter, more effective, and more successful than the long and painstaking work of love, service, and humanity. Concluding our article, let us briefly turn to such a subject as a person’s desire to get out of a state of temporary loss of meaning. If the psyche is normal, then a person who is currently subject to a depressive mood, as a rule, wants to get rid of it. We can say that the sense of meaning almost never completely disappears from our lives if we maintain a clear mind and the ability to be critical. With sad senselessness and lack of desires, we at least want to desire again, we understand that “something wrong is happening to us” and we are looking for help for ourselves. The desire to “regain a sense of meaning” can also be meaning. It seems to me that an important factor in such a return could be special techniques for working with the ability of attention. Attention is a ray of our consciousness aimed at a specific fragment of reality, because we still cannot cover “the whole world.” However, it matters a lot what exactly the eye falls on; what becomes the object of attention. This object can be the dark sides of reality, which will lead us to deepening depression, or it can be the bright features of the world, capable of directly conveying a sense of meaning by the very fact of their existence, their brightness and joy. Proper focus of attention, a sensory-semantic impetus, and... a person comes out of a heavy darkness to live, create, and prosper. In conclusion, I want to describe a metaphor that always comes to mind when thinking about the sense of meaning. Imagine a children's pop-up book with a gray, unattractive cover and no pictures. The book is closed, it looks like a dull flat stone, there is no light, no play, no fantasy in it, only the gloomy gloomy binding looks at you. And then the book opens, and inside it cardboard figures suddenly straighten out, depicting a fairy-tale life, wondrous landscapes shine, brightly dressed people are having fun, flowers are blazing. The figures are voluminous, they even move, and you enter the fairy tale on equal terms and wander in delight through the streets of cozy cities, and a wonderful secret awaits you around every corner. So is the sense of meaning. It reveals to us the fabulousness and attractiveness of the world, highlights its versatility, beckons with mysterious distances - hope, love, victory. And this always happens, even if just a minute ago we saw nothing but a gray cover. Literature: 1. Leontyev D.A. Psychology of meaning. M., 1999. P. 78. 2. Heidegger M. Being and time. M., 1993. P. 37.

(b. 01/23/1953) - special. on General Problems of Philosophy, Doctor of Philosophy. sciences, prof. Genus. in Rostov-on-Don. Graduated from Philosophy. Faculty of Growth. state University (1975). Cand. diss. - "Philosophy as theoretical self-consciousness." Dr. diss. - “Rational and value (problems of regulation of consciousness)” (1988). Currently vr. is prof. Department of History of Philosophy Philosopher Faculty of the Russian State University for the Humanities. Valid member The Academy humanizes. Sciences (1997). Basic scientific topic research - gnoseol. and axiol. problems of consciousness, existential. human aspects existence, philosophy problems of esotericism. In his works he pursues the idea of ​​the unity of rational and non-rational aspects of man. being and knowledge, emphasizes the priority of everyday life and awareness in relation to all altered states of consciousness, and defends humanistic values.

Op.: The concept of philosophical reflection // FN. 1979. No. 5;Philosophy and personality. Rostov-on-D., 1983 ;On the functions of culture // FN. 1984. No. 2;Philosophy as theoretical self-awareness // Yearbook of Philosophy. Society of the USSR. 1984;On the specifics of higher spiritual values ​​// Ibid. 1987. No. 4;Rational and value-based(problems regulating consciousness). Rostov-on-D., 1988 ;Socialism:deformation problems.[In al.]. Rostov-on-D., 1989 ;Man in the animated cosmos of esotericism // Man as a cosmic phenomenon. Izhevsk, 1993 ;Philosophy of education.[In al.]. Rostov-on-D., 1994 ;Philosophy of everyday life(existential problems). Rostov-on-D., 1994 ;Man in the Universe // Philosophy. Rostov-on-D., 1995 ;The world of everyday life // Ibid.;Soviet philosophy // Ibid.;Country Philosophy(book for schoolchildren and students). Rostov-on-D., 1995 ;Postmodernism - the collapse of consciousness? // ONS. 1997. No. 4.

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According to the generally accepted point of view, neurotic people come to see a psychotherapist. The word "neurotic", born along with psychoanalysis and closely associated with psychotherapy, has become widely known throughout the world in recent decades. Jokes like “daily neuroticism depletes the body” are very popular in intellectual circles, where a considerable part of the public half-jokingly asks: “Who among us is not like that?”

A neurotic person is usually represented as a nervous, anxious subject, sometimes gloomy, sometimes hysterical, wringing his hands, conflicting with others, drowning in inappropriate reactions, sometimes suspicious, sometimes clinging to others like a leech. In general, a rather unpleasant person. Although suffering.

At the same time, neuroticism is considered a kind of symptom of originality and subtlety of perception. “Artists are neurotics... Scientists? - Yes, crazy, by God... And politicians... - all as one “with greetings”! Just look: that one twirls and twirls his little hands, and this one drinks at night - he solves internal conflicts, and the most famous one, have you heard, has an Oedipus complex!”

However, don’t be arrogant! The domestic working class, together with the former collective farm peasantry, is also not devoid of neuroticism these days. Because they feel bad, disgusting, disgusting, and very often they don’t want to live...

We can say that the word “neurotic”, which arose in foreign lands, became in the “cursed days” of the turn of the millennium an everyday characteristic not only of the “average Western person”, but also of our people, who previously seemed whole and mentally pure. But was he ever pure and whole? Maybe this is nothing more than a myth... One has only to open our favorite novels by Fyodor Mikhailovich Dostoevsky, and a whole psychoneurological sanatorium will appear, a series of illustrations for the later works of S. Freud, E. Berne, K. Horney. Ambivalent passions, groundless fears, manic aspirations, overvalued ideas, satanic pride and sacrificial love - we fully find all this in the classic of Russian literature. And let us note that for the most part we are not talking about clinical cases at all, but about ordinary people from ordinary Russian cities - about philistines, nobles, commoners... The modern neurotic is just as diverse and many-sided, he can be found in all social strata, and, as and before, when he was still nameless, he sheds his tears, sometimes visible, sometimes invisible to the world.

So, neurotics are, in the minds of the mass consciousness, a whole army of variegated people who suffer mentally and, willingly or unwillingly, turn their lives and the lives of their loved ones into a good rehearsal for the underworld.

It is worth noting that we are not talking about those people who suffered a one-time blow in life, a personal catastrophe or an everyday shock. Even non-professionals, who are very far from psychotherapeutic problems, perceive the difference between the grief that befalls a person, which must be overcome with courage, and the creeping internal infection, drop by drop, poisoning a seemingly normal and successful person’s days and nights, hours of work and rest. Neuroticism is a long-term condition, difficult to overcome; it is a chronic psychological illness, often having its source in long-forgotten impressions of a not-so-rosy childhood. We can say that in ordinary consciousness, a neurotic is a person who is somehow psychologically flawed, broken, internally dysfunctional. And, of course, he needs help. Another question is where and how he can get it.

The Western neurotic has been carefully paying money for a century, visiting his psychoanalyst or psychotherapist, and undergoing training in support or development groups. Our native Russian visits the few specialists less often, he confesses to friends and relatives, drinks vodka and reads books, hoping to find in them the answer to his painful questions. But one way or another, everyone is looking to alleviate their internal discomfort, because it is difficult to live with pain in the soul and problems in fate.

Having sketched in a few strokes the portrait of a neurotic as he has developed in the eyes of the unenlightened public, let’s try in more detail and taking into account the opinions of professionals to understand which people really need psychotherapeutic help and why. Let us conditionally divide them into three groups.

The first group is people who are experiencing an internal crisis in one form or another. (For example, war, disaster, terrorist attack, loss of loved ones, being in captivity or in a concentration camp, enduring great suffering.) They are not neurotic, but they may well become one if they do not receive psychological help in time.

Unfortunately, we know too well that almost everyone who fought in Afghanistan and Chechnya needs professional psychotherapy, restoration of psychological balance, and new strategies for adapting to life.

This is a sacred and necessary matter. I know that these days a psychotherapist goes to identify the bodies of the dead along with the parents looking for their sons. And the same psychotherapist works with young soldiers who returned from combat zones wounded and shell-shocked. It helps them recover faster in order to either return to the front line or be able to build new life"in civilian life".

Of course, one can object to this that in past wars, which humanity has endured a lot, there were no psychotherapists, and they survived and coped with nothing. We managed, of course. But at what cost? The question of price is very important here. And then, who counted the number of those who “couldn’t cope”: they became drunk, became depressed, went crazy, and suffered a nervous breakdown for the rest of their lives? The image of a gloomy, wounded warrior, furious, fitful, truly “half-man” runs through many literary works.

In fact, some people cope with both injuries and illnesses on their own and survive no matter what. However, this does not mean that there is no need to treat or care for anyone.

In addition, in the old days, “psychotherapeutic work” with people in crisis was partly carried out by priests. But this was possible only with a sufficiently widespread and deep religiosity, which has long been absent in our days.

The second group is people who have been spared by wars, earthquakes and disasters. Their psychological crisis is personal in nature and may seem almost groundless to the outside eye. This is unhappy love, broken hopes, life plans collapsed due to some circumstances. This is disappointment in yourself - your abilities and capabilities. Once upon a time there lived a man, everything went according to his mind, the line of fate was woven without any particular problems, and suddenly it turned out that he was not able to realize his plans, that his dreams were unrealistic, his efforts were in vain. And the person “goes into a tailspin,” becomes depressed, loses self-confidence, and sees the world in black.

It must be said that crises of this kind are often actually resolved by the “course of life” itself, without the intervention of specialists. But only in those cases when they are not too deep and do not undermine the very foundations of personality. Then gradually, with the tactful support of loved ones, the victim restores an optimistic worldview, lost self-esteem, begins to acquire new hopes and make new plans. What if the trauma was too deep? Then mental wounds must be carefully treated by a specialist doctor who will help the patient avoid such possible desperate decisions as suicide, self-harm, attempt on someone else’s life, passion for the idea of ​​\u200b\u200brevenge, or, on the contrary, will give the opportunity to overcome the constraining apathy.

The third group are people with possible crises, such as the transition from childhood to adolescence or the onset of old age (and, first of all, social old age, when a person moves away from his usual activities). However, we will not dwell in detail on this issue, which is widely discussed in books devoted to human age.

The second group of people are neurotics themselves, the very people with whose research and treatment 3. Freud began his work. Perhaps neurotics once suffered a crisis situation or simply a separate private shock. Perhaps they were influenced by events in early childhood or the general course of life. But be that as it may, these are people suffering primarily from functional disorders that have no apparent somatic causes.

A person may stutter, lie in paralysis, suffer from facial tics or hysterical vomiting, and may have numerous “creeping” disorders of various organs for which ordinary doctors cannot find any explanation. The patient seems to be healthy, but at the same time sick. The psychotherapist looks for the hidden causes of the disease in the patient’s unconscious, reveals the latent connection between psychology and physiology, reveals and presents to consciousness those pathological connections that once formed between emotions and functioning different systems body. Thus, a person who was frightened by a dog in early childhood may then faint throughout his life at any sound reminiscent of barking. Or an internal protest against the need to do an unloved job - teaching at school - makes the would-be teacher completely lose his voice all the time. And no matter how many times the poor fellow goes to the otolaryngologist, he will not get rid of aphonia until he changes the nature of his activity.

Psychosomatic disorders, fears, phobias that prevent a person from leading a normal life, most important field the activity of psychotherapy, which operates here, using a whole arsenal of various techniques - from classical psychoanalysis with its free flow of associations to bodily therapy and neurolinguistic programming. It is quite obvious that this kind of problem cannot be solved by “life itself,” by friends, acquaintances and relatives. We are no longer talking about bandaging mental wounds. Received a long time ago, they seemed to have healed, but left scars and adhesions, ugly scars that deform a person’s emotions and will. The whole point is that without the help of a specialist, a neurotic sufferer will never understand the causes of his own ailments, the illnesses that plague him, behavioral disruptions, and sudden panic. And if he doesn’t understand, he won’t be able to influence the reason that is giving rise to his troubles with excellent stability.

We know very well that if our friend has a fear of heights, and already on the third floor he begins to break out in cold sweat and tremble, it is absurd to repeat to him a hundred and fifty times: “Don’t be afraid, don’t be afraid.” It is also absurd to ridicule or tease him; words lose their meaning in these cases. There are known situations where people with similar phobias tried to overcome them by “going for it,” for example, going on a mountaineering trip despite their fear. Such experiences, as a rule, end in tears, because the owner of the phobia not only falls into the abyss himself, but also pulls others along with him.

Real long-term neurotic disorders, rooted in the darkness of past years, can only be cured by specialists.

The third group - and this is the largest group - cannot establish relationships with the world and fate, suffering desperately from this. It is they who constitute in the mass consciousness the image of the “neurotic personality of our time” (K. Horney’s term).

We can say that now these are the main visitors of psychotherapists, although specialists do not always call them neurotics. They talk about "neurotic behavior." A person with neurotic behavior turns into a real neurotic when the painful principle begins to dominate undividedly, crushing every sensible decision and life itself.

Based on the opinion of Western psychotherapists and psychoanalytic theorists (E. Fromm, K. Horney, E. Bern, etc.), we can derive a number of external symptoms of a neurotic state that indicate to us the need for professional correction of the individual’s inner world:

Hidden and obvious anxiety and fear towards the world and towards people, a deep-seated lack of self-confidence, taking various compensatory forms, “basic mistrust”, inability to fully enjoy life. This inability to enjoy real, open, living relationships causes neurotics to derive dubious pleasure from the negative reactions of other people.

This type of relationship is perfectly described by E. Berne in his books about the “games” that poison human communication. I would add that neurotic joys are subject to the principle: “In the absence of toilet paper, we use sandpaper.”

Self-alienation: long-term and stable rejection of oneself or complete uncritical self-justification and self-aggrandizement (identifying oneself with an ideal).

Here we are talking about cruel “samoyeds”, always cursing their own imperfections, and narcissistic Narcissists, believing that they are always “comme il faut”. And if society often openly condemns the latter or questions their pride, the former are sometimes poeticized, especially here in Russia, where they love “eternal dissatisfaction with oneself,” ignoring its openly neurotic character.

Inability to love, inability to build more or less harmonious relationships, the desire for complete possession of another person or for complete submission to him. Painful attachments or rapid destruction of any human union.

There is a lot of “unhappy love” all around us. It could be unrequited love to another person who has rejected the lover (more often the loving one). However, the lover does not deviate from her goal and pursues the poor “victim of love” even to the North Pole... The neurotic nature of such “passion” is obvious.

This can be love-dominance and love-slavery, when an outwardly peaceful married life is in fact a hidden copy of the relationship between a prisoner and a jailer.

Endless mutual insults, mania for betrayal, irrepressible suspicion - all these are features of hidden neurosis, as well as inveterate coldness and panicky fear of attachments.

Lack of flexible strategies in behavior. Blindness, rigidity in pursuing one behavioral line. A neurotic is one who repeatedly, with unenviable persistence in this case, “steps on the same rake.”

One neurotic always strives to dominate, without knowing who he is dealing with. The other constantly suppresses himself in the name of other people's interests. The third invariably suspects others of aggression and hides his “I”, even where it is completely unnecessary and only interferes with contact: in friendship, love, relationships that cannot exist without trust. The motto of a neurotic is: “What can you do, that’s how I am!”

The manic monotony of strategy and tactics leads to the fact that traumatic situations are repeated all the time, leading to increasing melancholy and depression. So, some neurotics always quarrel with their superiors, regardless of the latter’s character, others always marry alcoholics or marry prostitutes, someone countless times finds themselves in the position of “scapegoat”. As E. Bern shows, people are often guided by “neurotic scenarios” that fetter their freedom. Where a “normal person” quickly takes non-trivial steps, the neurotic will stubbornly break through the same wall with his forehead.

However, at some point, realizing the dead end of the chosen path, he may try to use a different strategy. However, this will not give him peace of mind and a soft solution to the problem: the two strategies will collide like rams on a narrow bridge, knocking sparks out of each other’s horns. In this case, a person constantly experiences a feeling of guilt due to “betrayal of himself” and inconsistently rushes from one type of behavior to another, which completely confuses his communication partners. Today I love and repent for no reason, tomorrow I fall into aggression for no reason... And so all the time. An extremely tedious form of communication.

It should be noted that neurotic behavior is a contagious thing in the literal sense of the word. If there is a severe neurotic next to you, who sincerely shivers every day from one strategy to another, you will soon find that you begin to be drawn into the “logic” of his behavior. You will begin to put up barriers to protect yourself from another injury, etc. Your own behavior will cease to be calm, open and friendly, no matter how much you like your neurotic friend. Neurotic relationships develop that can involve both two participants and more large groups people.

A dramatic feature of the neurotic state, which usually complicates the recognition of neurosis and its overcoming, is the truly satanic pride of neurotics and their idealization of their own image of “I”. The neurotic thinks of himself as perfect, corresponding to the ideal, god-like, and considers it impossible, unbearable, shameful to deviate from ideal image. Hence his hatred of his real existence, full of imperfection.

“...The ideal image of a neurotic,” writes K. Horney, “not only creates in him a false belief in his value and his significance; he is rather like Frankenstein's monster, which over time devours all the best forces of its creator. In the end, it takes away both a person’s attraction to development and his desire to realize his capabilities. This means that the person is no longer interested in approaching his problems realistically or outgrowing them and revealing what lies within him; he is now tied to the actualization of his ideal “Own Self” (Horney K. Neurosis and Personal Growth. St. Petersburg, 1997. P. 306.).

Loss of joy in life and loss of its meaning.

The topic of “noogenic neuroses” was actively studied in the 20th century by Viktor Frankl, the founder of the field of logotherapy or, in other words, meaning therapy. It was he who drew attention to a special type of neurosis in people who are sufficiently well-fed, rich and well-established - the loss of the meaning of life, the experience of meaninglessness, leading from depression of moderate severity to crimes and suicides.

Of course, an ordinary healthy person is not always in a rosy mood. It is known that the one who is always clear is most likely just stupid. However, a normal individual, having become sad and bored, soon returns to his usual cheerful business mood, his desire to live, achieve goals, and enjoy the world and people awakens again. A neurotic person falls into a quagmire of melancholy and meaninglessness for an indefinitely long period of time and is unable to get out of it. We need special help, a guiding thread, by grasping which you can return to the light and joy of life.

It is worth noting that all three categories of neurotic conditions, including their mildest and most common forms, more similar to character traits, are corrected using two well-known methods, based, relatively speaking, on the “deep” and “apex” (V. Frankl’s term) psychology. A specialist psychotherapist must be able to access the recesses of the unconscious, descend into the bottomless mine of dreams, forgotten impressions, secret desires (depth psychology) and rise to the heights of the patient’s highest meanings, his main goals and values ​​(apex psychology).

As psychologists, philosophers and psychotherapists explain large number neurotics and neurotic relationships in modern society?

Most of them emphasize that a sick person and a sick society are the essence of unity. E. Fromm and A. Maslow talk about this; we can find similar thoughts in other authors. However, within the framework of our topic, we cannot go into the question of social diseases, which, in essence, accompany the entire history of mankind (it’s probably not for nothing that K. Marx called it just prehistory). Now we are interested in the main character - a modern neurotic, a patient of a psychotherapist, very close to you and me (We will continue to use the term “neurotic”, although the conversation will mainly focus on the third category of psychotherapist’s visitors.).

What are the roots of neuroses, especially the third group we have identified? What must happen to an individual - to you, to me, to someone else - so that a healthy, integral, dynamically developing relationship with the world turns into a bunch of spasms and problems?

A. Maslow answers these questions in a certain way. He believes that a normal healthy person has a group of basic needs, those without the satisfaction of which he could not exist and develop. This:

1. Physiological needs (the need to eat, drink, move, realize the sexual instinct, be protected from cold and heat, rest, etc.).

2. The need for security (to be protected from attacks on life and health, to feel supported by some order, law, to have guarantees).

3. The need for belonging and love (essentially, this is the need for communication, but communication with a “plus” sign: to have a social circle, acquaintances, friends, loving people).

4. The need for recognition (the desire to assert oneself in achieving goals, to be confident, independent, free, to have status, the attention of others, to be recognized and known).

5. The need for self-actualization (engage in activities, work, create, develop oneself, learn and invent new things, receive aesthetic joys, influence the development of other people, win in sports, etc.).

According to Maslow, these needs form a hierarchy, where physiology and vital aspects are at the core, and creativity and self-realization are the “top floor”. “The upper” does not stand without the “lower”: before creating and asserting oneself, one must at least not die of hunger or cold.

However, a significant defect in satisfying any group of needs leads to neuroticism of the individual. “...I declare with all directness and sharpness,” writes A. Maslow, “that we must consider a person unsatisfied in any of the basic needs as a sick or at least “subhuman” person. Nothing stops us when we call people sick who suffer from a lack of vitamins and microelements. But who said that a lack of love is less harmful to the body than a lack of vitamins? (Maslow A. Motivation and personality. M., 1999. P. 104.)

Hunger and poverty, lack of security, the position of an outcast in a group or society, mental loneliness, contempt of others, lack of field for self-affirmation and self-realization make a person neurotic.

In addition, the “technology” of satisfying basic needs may be deformed or disrupted for some specific reason.

The need impulses that a person experiences are in this case suppressed, misdirected, confused with each other, or chosen the wrong means.

Thus, the need for human intimacy and love under the influence of cultural attitudes can be suppressed and turned into fanatical love for God if ignored real people(Christian Europe at one time gave many similar examples of “religious neurosis”).

The need for self-actualization often receives a distorted focus, turning into a need for power over other people and pushing them around.

The need to aggressively attack others camouflages fear of life and the desire for maximum security, and the lack of respect and acceptance from others is compensated by neurotic gluttony or buying hysteria. In this last case, they try to plug the “hole” that has arisen in the soul due to the lack of truly human relationships material assets or prestigious symbols.

In fact, what psychologists call neurotic needs is formed. They are obsessive (compulsive) and dictate inflexible, one-sided and conflicting strategies to the individual.

A person has an imperious need to humiliate himself or humiliate others, to always dominate or always submit, to flee from reality under various pretexts or to aggressively bite into it, regardless of real circumstances. Irrational demonstrativeness and hoarding, as well as the desire to constantly please one’s own “I” at the expense of “psychological gains,” become a powerful need. Often “psychological gains” are gained through self-humiliation if you manage to make your communication partner feel guilty.

The problem is that most people with neurotic behavior are not even aware that they are neurotic and that their needs are unhealthy. They simply feel irritated and unhappy, suffer from communication difficulties, quarrel with loved ones, get divorced, make scandals and believe that the “imperfections of the world” are to blame for all this. However, sometimes they claim that they themselves are to blame for everything, but without analyzing the nature of the guilt, such statements also turn out to be nothing more than a form of masochistic neurosis.

We can say that people often come to a psychotherapist not because they really want to change themselves, but because they are waiting for tips on how to better cope with this stubborn life: how to influence others, expand their capabilities, perhaps learn to manipulate others - partners in business, bosses, subordinates, friends... They come to a psychotherapist in the same way as to a witch or fortune teller: cast a spell, cast a spell, tell me what will happen... They feel bad, and they are looking for, in the words of E. Berne, a “magical deliverer” , they want a miracle.

But this is precisely the special mission of the psychotherapist: to show the patient how to understand and change himself. And for this he needs the patient’s help and cooperation.

A psychotherapist is not a magician, not a sorcerer, and not a “magical deliverer”; he cannot wave a magic wand so that today or tomorrow all the troubles of our suffering neurotic will be resolved. But he not only helps to cope with a one-time, even difficult problem (although he also has techniques and methods for this case), but also gives a person an arsenal of tools to influence his own character, habits and attitudes, transform his attitude and experience of the world. A patient who has undergone successful therapy should think and feel differently - better, more productive, more harmonious.

At the same time, the psychotherapist does not indulge in soul-saving conversations, which we heard enough from teachers at school, but skillfully guides his ward through the difficult roads of his personal experience. This includes travel to the past, and analysis of current current experiences, and peeking into plans and dreams. Just as Horace led Dante along the paths of hellish and heavenly spaces, allowing him to personally experience and feel all the tragic and happy encounters, so the psychotherapist leads the patient along the paths of the conscious and unconscious. This can be an individual or group trip, but the standard result of such excursions is a healthy and happy person.

So, we tried to answer the question of who needs psychotherapy. However, another problem arises: what should be understood by a “normal, healthy person”? What do psychological norms and health mean?

It is not so easy to answer this question briefly. And here we must again turn for help to philosophizing psychologists and psychotherapists - E. Fromm, A. Maslow, K. Horney.

In almost all of these authors we find the idea that the usual meaning of the term “normal” should be reconsidered. Typically, “normal” means “average” or “common.” But in modern society we can often meet twitchy, embittered, inconsistent people. It seems that in our turbulent times, pathology has begun to take the place of the norm, but this does not make it any easier for the suffering people themselves.

Another meaning of the word “normal” is tradition, established stereotypes of behavior that are considered normal. From the point of view of society, it is normal to obey public opinion, even if it is essentially wrong, it is normal to act according to a pattern, it is normal to show aggression, to suffer from a guilt complex, and to do a lot of other things that bring a person nothing but personal degradation.

Both senses of the word “normal” do not indicate a healthy, happy person. They tell us nothing at all about the qualities and capabilities of a person, about the characteristics of his nature. In contrast, humanistic psychology, raising the question of a “normal, healthy person,” speaks about his nature.

Human nature is characterized here as open to development and self-improvement, to realizing all the best inclinations and abilities. For A. Maslow, human health presupposes self-actualization, K. Horney calls it self-realization, E. Fromm calls it productivity.

Healthy and normal turns out to be only those who are not closed in on themselves, who do not run away from life, who are not swaddled in a network of fears and anxieties that force them to cling to others or to their illusory refuge. A healthy person is open to the world, communication, and self-understanding. Only he is completely normal who, while remaining himself, nevertheless is not afraid of change, boldly looks into the eyes of time, lives fully and joyfully and builds, if possible, good and harmonious relationships with the people around him. Power does not make his head spin, self-humiliation does not attract him, he has no desire to torment others or suffer himself. A truly healthy normal person easily acts according to the situation, freely changes strategies, but at the same time is benevolent and selfless in his attitude towards the world, that is, he is quite moral.

In a psychologically healthy individual, which, in theory, any neurotic who wants to improve his life can become, at least three pairs of points must be balanced.

Self-preservation - development.

Self-preservation is the most important task of a person; without fulfilling it, he simply cannot live. Feelings such as fear, anxiety, apprehension, proactive aggression, various strategies for self-protection from possible physical and mental injuries are normal mechanisms that ensure the ability to survive.

However, if experiences and attitudes related to self-preservation become dominant, a person stops developing. He spends all his strength either on deep defense or on an attack, the object of which becomes the intended enemy. No less than self-preservation, a person needs development: improvement of one’s strengths, which is impossible without interaction with others, risk when encountering new events and circumstances, moments of self-test. Development occurs only in overcoming, and any overcoming - be it a mountaineering trip, defending new scientific ideas or political activity– require courage, flexibility and a desire to understand partners. New love or friendship also carries a risk - you may not be accepted! - but without such new relationships, life becomes meager and poor.

Only a fluid balance of the desire for self-preservation and the desire for development ensures psychological health.

Adaptation is self-actualization.

It would be stupid to say that a person does not need to adapt to the world. A person must, in a certain sense, “go with the flow” so that the mighty stream of life and social events does not sweep him away. All the sages of the past - from the Taoists to Spinoza and Hegel - tell us that we must submit to the great Necessity, which is expressed, among other things, in the real structure of society, culture, in its laws, norms and values. In the words of K. Marx, a person cannot live in society and be free from society. He is simply forced to reckon with objective conditions that dictate to him a number of strict behavioral prohibitions and moral and psychological commands.

That is why traditional psychology considered the individual who is well adapted to social life to be normal. Such a person does not “fall out of line”; she is functional and does not create unnecessary problems. True, a person’s internal well-being turns out to be not very significant in this case. Break yourself, but adapt! Waste your talents, but do not contradict your surroundings! Treating a neurotic meant “bringing him to a common denominator” with other people. But is this enough for health and happiness?

Obviously not, as E. Fromm and A. Maslow drew attention to. The adaptation itself only hews the individual according to a socially given standard, a rigid matrix, and this matrix is ​​not at all perfect. At all times, society has been cruel, authoritarian, and full of vices. Even today it suppresses talents and supports mediocrity, approves of lies and servility, often trampling on independence and honesty. That is why a person should not stop only at the adaptation phase. If possible, without entering into acute conflict with the environment, he, nevertheless, should strive to develop all the best potentialities inherent in him. Self-actualization is the second side of the coin, without which each of us risks remaining just a faceless puppet of other people's opinions and manipulative actions.

Self-actualization - the manifestation of individual, unique abilities - gives the individual the opportunity to vividly perceive reality and establish their own, and therefore comfortable, relationships with it. Getting out from under a pile of rigid external norms, a person becomes natural and spontaneous, he acquires internal autonomy and freedom, looks at things with a fresh look, and turns out to be capable of high mystical experiences and true democracy in communication. He is moral, but tolerant and does not lose his sense of humor. A self-actualized person is not afraid to be original, not afraid to be himself.

The harmonious relationship between freedom and dependence, respect for cultural institutions and our own potentials ultimately gives us a healthy and joyful being, capable of realizing our unique traits and talents without conflict. Realism is the ability to be creative. Undoubtedly, a healthy person should look at life realistically, without self-deception, empty dreams and illusions caused by the desire to escape from reality. A healthy person will not intoxicate himself with alcohol and drugs, run into the ghostly world of endless meditations, or go into fantasies about the non-existent. He lives in empirical reality, obeys the laws of the everyday world, slightly enlightened by science, and is guided by practical goals, which he achieves with passion and tenacity.

However, human realism should not be photographic naturalism, a flat and boring recording of everyday worries. “Too much realism” leads to futility, routine, and then to deep boredom and depression. Therefore, a healthy, normal person needs not only a sober outlook on life, but also a poetic, imaginative, dreamy outlook. The moment of creativity, penetrating into all layers of everyday life - from simple communication to the creation of new works of art and new discoveries - truly makes a person human, gives him wings, opens up new perspectives for him, sets before him previously unknown goals.

A skillfully maintained balance between “realism” and “creativity” makes us truly happy.

So, in order for us to be healthy and happy, quite a lot is needed. Psychotherapists are ready to introduce us to something.

However, will they always be able to correctly assess the patient’s problem and give him the right clue? Doesn't the sufferer get some problems instead of others, which are no better than the previous ones?

The new book by Fyodor Vasilyuk is a remarkable event in psychological and philosophical circles. You can even clarify - “as always, a remarkable event.” I have been familiar with this author’s first major and widely known work, “The Psychology of Experience,” since the 80s, and even recently, in my textbook on philosophical anthropology, I tried to consistently present for students his position regarding the experience of crisis semantic situations [1]. The result was a free retelling, probably not entirely accurately reproducing the ideas of Fyodor Efimovich. Obviously, this happened because in that previous book, not everything was clear to me, and as a result, I had to supplement the author’s vision with my own. The new book, unlike the previous one (although it has become almost a classic!), is written absolutely clearly and transparently, intelligibly and logically - this is the work of a mature master who simultaneously builds a clear system of his ideas and points the reader to new horizons.

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    Over the past decades in Russian life Theoretical ideas and practical developments of existential psychotherapy are increasingly penetrating: the Association of Existential Counseling operates, since 2002 the journal “Existential Tradition: Philosophy, Psychology, Psychotherapy” has been published, authors such as D.A. write about philosophical ideas used in psychotherapy. Leontyev, V.V. Letunovsky, A.S. Sosland, Y.V. Tikhonravov, articles by foreign colleagues (V. Blankenburg, D. Wulf, E. Spinelli, etc.) are published in various publications. In this regard, for Russian professional philosophers, who are not alien to an interest in psychotherapy, the question arises of what transformations existential ideas undergo in the process of their application to psychotherapeutic work. Isn’t there a distortion and substitution of concepts here, when a famous name illuminates psychological practices that are very remote from the position of the thinker? This applies primarily to the works of M. Heidegger, whose authority sanctifies the practice of “existential analysis” (L. Binswanger) and “Dasein analysis” (M. Boss).

    // Philosophy of M. Heidegger and modernity (to the 120th anniversary of the philosopher’s birth): materials of the International. scientific Conf. - Krasnodar: Kuban State. Univ., 2010. - 356 p. - 100 copies. - ISBN 978-5-8209-0708-1.

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  • + - About the sense of meaning

    Once upon a time, in my young post-student years, the question of the meaning of life seemed to me extremely sophisticated, elitist-philosophical and completely incomprehensible. "The meaning of life"? Something so vague and pompous, some strange addition to ordinary human existence, which takes place in worries and troubles, in efforts to achieve one or another quite clear goal. Life is rich and exciting, there are so many interesting things in it that you need to understand and experience: you need to become a good teacher, find your love, see the world... Thinking about the additional and general “meaning” that seems to hover over life was for me something like a medieval debate about how many angels can stay on the point of a needle... Over time, going through stages of my own life path one after another, reading books devoted to meaning, I began to understand that the topic of the meaning of life does not belong to the category of elitist amusements, to the area of ​​​​an exquisite “game of beads". The meaning of life is the most vital thing in the world, although it is very, very difficult to express it in words, because its content does not fully fit into rational forms, partly merging with life itself, its small and large concerns. It coincides with the desire to live, with the mood and general emotional tone. The meaning of life is not a register of even the highest and most worthy tasks (although it may include these high tasks), it is a state of consciousness that allows a person to cope with difficulties, overcome obstacles and fully enjoy his own existence. This meaning of the term “meaning of life” is best learned from personal experience, because theoretical knowledge does not allow us to comprehend it in its entirety.

    // “Existential tradition: philosophy, psychology, psychotherapy” No. 1

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    The theme of this reflection offered to the reader is the attitude towards death that the psychotherapist forms in his patients. Death - the end of a person's life - is a situation that no person can avoid facing. Both angles from which this situation appears to us - the threat to one’s own life and the loss of loved ones - are deeply traumatic for a modern individual belonging to Western culture. There is no one who would not lose dear and loved ones in the course of life, there is no one who would not fear the total Nothingness, in which, according to the conviction of the current civilized personality, all the wealth of our soul, all hopes, aspirations and memories are dissolved. According to this view, everyone’s life path ends in a faceless, non-objective abyss, which - whether you call it being, following Heidegger, or not - this does not make it any safer or more attractive. A gloomy and alarming prospect, a tragic breakdown, sad hopelessness - these are the features of the perception of the phenomenon of death that are characteristic of our days, permeated with scientific pathos and atheistic nihilism.

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  • + - Philosophy as psychotherapy (Therapeutic possibilities of philosophy) [unavailable]

    At first glance, philosophy and psychotherapy represent two different spheres, quite distant from each other, one of which is theoretical, and the other is purely practical. The philosopher reflects on the beginnings and ends of the world, on the possibilities of knowledge and the fundamental foundations of existence, and the psychotherapist works with the patient, trying to help him get rid of mental suffering. The philosopher flies in the high mountain air of abstract abstractions, the psychotherapist delves into the mud of hysterical emotions and passions. The philosopher does not owe anyone anything: he releases his ideas into the world, allowing people to interpret the written texts as they please, the psychotherapist bears the burden of responsibility for the condition of a particular person who came to him for help. And yet, with all this difference, philosophy can successfully serve as psychotherapy, act as practical philosophy, and help those suffering to find a guiding thread.

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